THEY SEE ME IN FRONT OF A SCREEN ALL THE TIME TOO.
I watch too much Netflix on my phone all the time while they are watching a show, or I’m scrolling thru facebook or instagram passing it off as “work”-I mean I do work on facebook and instagram. But it has become more of a crutch then actually working.
How would I expect Emmy to enjoy soccer when I haven’t even gotten out there with her?
My kids are doing and saying the things they see me doing and saying all the time. So yes, the TV needs to go, and my daughter was getting the point after her room was empty(relax, I made her bed). But what really needed to change, was my everyday interaction and happenings in my house. We need to pair down time in front of screens, and add times of interaction. Interaction with each other, friends, families and our community. I was going to change this for my kids and the one on its way.
The last two days, not having our cable or internet(apparently when I took out the one box, it disconnected EVERYTHING), I felt much better and I haven’t screamed at my kids at much. Hubby not as thrilled as he missed football games today!
I even moved my social media icons and Netflix to the way back of my phone, so I have to work to go see it. I am writing down my hours of work, for both my photography and color street business, and the job I do at my sons school. Those are going to be the times I am working and the rest the phones and tablets will be put away so I can be present with my family.
It is not going to be easy, but I know in my heart, it is the right thing to do and it is worth it. I want to pair down my life of useless, meaningless things, and fill them more with things that make my heart happy.
So why did I write this? Well I have been wanting to start writing consistently and just kept putting it off. My Netflix addiction honestly got in the way. So without that as an option, I felt the need to write. I have many more planned and in my head, so I hope you will stick around as I get this bad boy going.
Main point is, We have control over our lives. We have the ability to ask for help from Jesus, the universe, Gandhi, Oprah, or whoever you seek guidance from and change things around. It will not be easy, but we can do it. And if we don’t have the control over the events, we have control over our reactions.
I hope you enjoyed this post and I plan on doing more on the topic of decluttering your house and mind, getting connected with yourself, and other things I have found that lead me to this point and who I have become.